Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things.
Set your affections on things above. Let God be your object of affection. He is the target of our praise and worship. He created us for it.
Just like the Father He is, He enjoys when you come to Him and spend time with Him. He takes pleasure in pouring out His goodness toward you. If you are not experiencing His goodness, get alone and call out to Him until you are not alone anymore.
Stop thinking about the speck that is in your brother's eye and start dealing with the log in your own. Deal with your thoughts by renewing your mind through Philippians 4:8. Think on these things and watch how God will make all things new. You will have a new perspective; a new found joy is yours.